Ridiculous Rules

 


For those of you who don't know.  I live in Victoria, Australia, but I'm originally from South Australia.  
All my family are in South Australia.  Because of covid, I have hardly seen them over the last couple of years.  The last time I saw them was in May, and now I won't be seeing them for Christmas either because of this....




So... I finish work on Wednesday 22nd of December and we also have our work break up that night which I want to go to.  So, I would have to go and be tested on Thursday 23rd and isolate until I receive my negative result, which, if I was lucky, would be Friday 24th.  So then I would travel to SA, but I can't go straight to my Mum's because then I need to go and have ANOTHER test and isolate on arrival - don't know where I'm getting the money to pay to stay somewhere to isolate, because I can't isolate with my Mum - so by the time I get the result back from this one would be at least Christmas Day.

I don't understand why you need to have 2 tests!

The reality is, that there are going to be a lot of people that go anyway, without doing this because they've made it so hard. I know I'm not the only one in this situation, there are so many families that I personally know of missing out on quality time with their loved ones because of this stupid rule! 

I was already having an emotional day and this has just topped it off.

I don't want to start a debate about vaccinations, I'm not interested in getting into arguments, I am just upset that I won't be seeing my family for my favourite time of year and I needed to get it out.

It's fucked is what it is!

HUGS xxx


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